This is why your boyfriend/husband does not respect you anymore

In a relationship, whether marriage or dating, if there is no suspense from both parties, it is likely to crumble. Love is what keeps relationship, and it needs to be nurished at all time. The food of love is suspense. What is suspense in a relationship?

You met this pretty lady, so lovely, sexy and charming. Always in her best outfit, and you fall inlove with her. Now, the first reason why you fall for her is because she's beautiful and sexy. Secondly you want to know more about her. Probably she walks and talks as if she does not go to toilet. You really want to see her other side, and at the end, her beautiful nakedness. That's suspense.
Now, you succeeded in having her as your girlfriend. After some months, you have gotten to know all that have been making her head swell up. You have even slept with her a number of times. Now, she's the one dying for you. Your love for her has drop because she got nothing else to keep you in #suspense#
Or
She is reserved; visit you less; calls you occasionally; says no to somethings you want her to do; even when she loves you so much, she pretend as if she does not. What happens? You want to find out?? Obviously,  you need to find out. #Suspense#
8 things Girls need to do in order to remian relevant and cherished by their boyfriends:
1) You must not look too cheap to him
2) Aviod calling him too much
3) Ignore his calls ateast ones in awhile
4) Aviod visiting at all time, especially at his demand.
5) Let him know other guys wouldnt want you to rest
6) Always pretend as if you careless about his status ( ride, money, and handsome)
7) Ofcourse, you must always dress sexily
8) Most importantly, try not to carry the relationship in your head. Be neutral and follow him anyhow he wants it.
You do not necessarily need to live in pretence. Nooo, that's not the idea. But you should always give your partner reasons to wanting to know more of you. For instance, you just got married, and after some months, you become so loose that you tie wrapper all day and allnight. You stop wearing all those sexy night gowns; short skirts; sexy tops etc. You stop having your usual early morning bath. You become so lazy that your home is almost turning to a pig house.
5 things a married woman needs to do in order to maintaing a heathy marriage:
1) Always dress nicely, beautifully and sexily, especially when your boo is around
2) Always keep a neat home.
3) Aviod arguing with your husband unnecessarily.
4) Try as much as possible not to exhibit some certain attitudes before him, such as polluting uncontrolably.
5) Atleast, go for vocation ones in a year. This applies to both. Dont always stay together from year-to- year.
7 things a Husband needs to do in oder to maintain a healthy marriage:
1) Keep a healthy body i.e wear sexy boxers and cut and shave neatly
2) Be a man of respect i.e do not qurrel with her. Leave the house each time she wants to bring up qurrel
3) Never raise your hand on her nomatter what happens. Just leave the house
4) Even if you love her so much, aviod asking too much question about people that call her, and the kind of messages she recieves. But this does not mean you shouldnt know what is going on.
5) Buy sexy wears for her.
6) Aviod talking to much. Think before you talk.
7) Always try your best to provide for the family.