A touching photo of an elderly Canadian couple who have been married for
62 years and are now forced to live in separate care homes went viral
after their granddaughter shared their story on Facebook.
The photo of Wolfram Gottschalk, 83, and his wife, Anita, 81, shows the
couple wiping away tears as they held hands during one of Anita's visit
at a transitional facility in British Columbia, Canada, while they are
waiting for Wolf to be be accommodated at Anita's nursing home. The
image has been
shared more than 10,000 times.
Ashley Baryik, 29 said her grandparents have been separated because
there is no room for both of them at the same home in Surrey, British
Columbia. Mr Gottschalk, who has been diagnosed with lymphoma, is on a
waiting list to move into the same home as his wife.
'It was the saddest photo I have ever taken" Baryik wrote on Tuesday.
She explained that her grandparents were separated in January when Mr
Gottschalk went to hospital for congestive heart failure.
"Friends please read! This is The saddest photo I have ever taken. This
is my Omi and my Opi. As you can see they are both wiping away tears!
But why? It was taken in Surrey at Yale road, a transitional facility
for people waiting to get into nursing homes, that's where my Opi is!
After 62 years together in marriage they have been separated for 8
months due to backlogs and delays by our health care system, whom have
the power to have my grandpa moved to the same care facility as my
grandmother. They cry every time they see each other, and it is
heartbreaking. To make it worse, TODAY he was diagnosed with Lymphoma.
Besides that limiting his time and making this more urgent, His Dementia
is growing ever stronger each day, but his memory of my grandmother has
not faded a inch...yet. We are afraid however that if they are living
apart much longer, his memory of her won't stay. This has been a strain
on our family, making the 30 minute commute to bring her to see him,
every second day, so he does not forget her. Now with the news of
cancer, our fight to have them in the same facility is even more urgent.
He isn't even getting proper care where he is, including no physical
therapy which we were promised (the only reason he is in a wheelchair is
because it has been 8 months of no walking!!) They deserve this!
Financially, physically and emotionally exhausted, me and my family are
begging for your help my friends. We have contacted our local MLA,
called Fraser Health and done in person inquiries, but none of our
questions and concerns have been answered. We want justice for my
grandparents who after 62 years together deserve to spend their last
moments in the same building. Please share this and tag anyone that
needs to see this post to get the help we need!
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